Always wondered why some people appeared to have the knack for flirting? Does it seem as though it's a natural talent that you will never possess? Well, think again…

Confidence - you've either got it or you haven't. But is it possible to attain levels of confidence that will allow you to become no.1 flirt? Of course it is!

When you're out on the pull, try not to worry about chat-up lines. By simply being yourself, you are already giving out the real, honest qualities of yourself. Being yourself when flirting shows who you really are and the best of them flirt with everyone because it helps them to succeed in every aspect of their life.

So by following these top five simple tips to flirting, you can become the ideal match for your ideal partner!

Build your self esteem There are plenty of ways you can build up your self-esteem. Enrolling in courses, reading self-help books and socialising more can really boost those confidence levels. Imagine you are a god/godess and how it would feel to be the most desired person in the world. Think about how you would walk, talk and act-then do it for real! Others will love you as much as you love yourself!

Eye power Eye contact is without a doubt THE ultimate way to communicate when flirting. Without this wonderful technique, flirting would cease to exist-so the longer you maintain that gaze, the stronger the chemistry between the two of you will be.

SSmmiillee When you smile, you are telling people that you are a warm, friendly, likeable individual, and easy to approach. Since the brain is on the look-out for these types of messages, it's important to send them out. Happy people equals happy days!

Talk about them When you're talking, it's important to show an interest in what they're saying. By not looking at them, or responding to anything they say, you appear distant and uninterested. Not exactly a good start, is it? Why not ask them what their ideal job or car would be? By doing this, you're showing that you're interested and they'll want to get to know you better.

Enter their space Physical connection can be a very potent aspect of flirting. Try moving slowly towards them, but don't touch them. If their reaction is positive and they don't try and pull back, then move in a little closer!

So, there you have it. You are a calm, confident flirt. Watch out - flirt alert!