Do You Behave in the Bedroom?

Do you have to be PC (politically correct) in the bedroom as well as out and about in the world now? Surely, it’s always been a case of doing what comes naturally? Not any more, so you had better brush up on your seduction skills and learn how to tow the line, or more to the point, how to get your partner in the mood for love!

There is no need to make your bedroom routine boring, but there are certain rules here as with any part of life. There are definitely certain dos and don’ts and the bedroom is possibly the most important ‘space’ for a relationship. If one or the other of you doesn’t play by the rules, it can be very hurtful and damaging. Of course, what goes on in the bedroom is an unruly subject that’s hard to find precise rules for. Nonetheless rules between the sheets do exist. They’re important, they’ll help keep your relationship afloat and we’ve pinned down the most important of them for you here.

1- Keep your promises
There can be no greater sin than giving your partner the eye all day and not coming up with the goods later. Of course there are times when life intervenes, with a health problem or an unavoidable circumstance, but let him down too many times and he won’t trust you to provide for him sexually. If you say you’re going to have sex that night, make sure you deliver.

2- Don’t rely on your toys
So you have discovered the joys of a little battery-assisted pleasure, but not all men can handle the second penis in the relationship. Strange but true. And not that strange when you consider that a vibrator can make you come in - ooh - ten seconds but it can take a man a good half hour to achieve the same result. The trick is, not to come too quickly with your machine and then lose interest in making love to your poor unsatisfied partner. Better still, keep it for those lean times when you are alone, or before he arrives and then you can be in the right mood for him!

3- Sharing with your partner should be fun
How about letting your lover control it by using it on you, teasing you with it. Let it lie between you when you make love. Run it all over him, finding his most erotic spots. Make sure that when he sees that particular piece of plastic he smiles, not frowns with annoyance.

4- Oral Opportunities
When did men not love oral sex? The trouble is that so many women stop giving them once they’re in a stable relationship. Keep at it. Perfect your technique. Get to know what his penis does and doesn’t like about your mouth. You cannot underestimate the power of good oral sex.

5- Foreplay is essential in any sexual relationship
The fastest way to kill your relationship is to forget the importance of foreplay. Feel each other up regularly (in and out of the bedroom) to keep things exciting and fresh.

6- Keep experimenting
Try new things. Let him know you’re up for change, ask him if there’s anything he’s ever wanted to do with a woman that he’s never managed. And whatever it is, give it a go. If it’s not your bag, say so and move on to try other things you might both like..

7- It’s a two way street
Many girls get into the rut of making sure their partner is always satisfied and thinking about themselves last. Prioritise your own orgasms and he’ll take great pleasure in watching your pleasure.

8- Rabbits go home
Sex, sex and more sex will not make your partner more committed to you. The real point is not to be at it like rabbits, but to make sure that when you do make love, you both have a good time, play by the above rules, and that’s far more likely to happen.