5 Mistakes Women Make in Bed
Female Sexual Mistakes
Are you mind-blowing or misguided? More importantly
are you guilty of any of our top five mistakes you
women make in bed?
It's the eternal question, "Am I good in bed?", or, "What makes a woman good in bed?"
The best people to answer this question are of course men. We have balloted many men for various sectors and the list below keep rearing its ugly head. So even if you can wrap your legs behind your head and yodel at the same time you may still be failing to totally impress him.
How much do you know about his bits?
When we try to talk about what we like you to do to our bits, you either laugh it off or get moody and say that you don't know anything about our bits. Even worse, you ignore what has just been said and what this really means is that as long as you are being pleasured you really don't care.
Trust me ladies we are right, if we don't know what we want who does? Remember what may have worked for your previous partners may not work for this one. Sex is like going out for dinner. Yes we can all eat and use a knife and fork. However the person who is well versed in dining and understands etiquette will do a much better job. If you're unsure and possibly embarrassed then buy a book on sex. As silly as it may seem they really are very good.
Honeymoon period
This is probably the most common complaint. In the beginning it was electric; we could not keep our hands off each other. Now she doesn't want to know.
Whilst I agree it is inevitable that the original passion will dissipate some what. You need to put more spontaneity into your relationship. Sex can become boring if you just Ôlie back and think of England' all the time. It's easier for a man to orgasm than a woman. Don't expect the man to always be the instigator. You can be impulsive if you want. It is allowed you know.
Driving to work in the same direction day after day becomes boring. As does the same of anything. Funnily enough sex falls into this category. The answer is to try different positions, dressing up, indoors, outdoors and different rooms - make it a challenge to do it in every room. Imagination is endless.
Crystal Ball
He's not a mind reader (this is my personal gripe) how was he supposed to know you were about to have an orgasm? How should he know you wanted your toes sucking? Communication is everything.
Most women think that because he knows you so well he should either know what you want or he should be able to tell by the signs. Crap, that is absolute crap. Why do so many women think men are born with radar to know exactly what women are in the mood for at any given time with zero input from her? You might laugh and say, "Well he should", but you will always have second rate sex.
I'm too fat
"Turn around whilst I get dressed". "I'm not going on top my belly and boobs wobble". "Leave the light off" (we all know why) and "You're not doing it from behind, my bum looks too big!"
It's a fact that most men prefer curves to skin and bone. Also it's unlikely he is Mr Body Perfect. We all see pictures of celebrities and want to live the dream, but we live in the real world, where most of us are overweight, some by a lot and some by a few pounds. Ladies believe it or not we get fed up with, "I'm too fat" and "Do I look fat in this?" Just let go and relax. He would not be with you if he didn't fancy you. Believe me your sex life will suffer and you will make his suffer too. To be a good lover you must first be confident with yourself. If you feel sexy you will be.
50/50
Why should he always have to make the first move? Why should he get out of breath all the time? Stop been so wrapped up in times gone by where men were men and women did as they were told. If you want or expect equality, then practice it. Why don't you turn the tables and seduce him, be a dominatrix or get on top and do some bloody work! It's very unlikely he will rebuff you. As I have said before be impulsive. After all you have years to experiment all you want. So have fun and stop thinking you know it all, because you don't.
